Life has a way of shifting beneath us, especially during a divorce. For professional women who’ve lost themselves to narcissistic relationships, it can feel like the vibrant woman you once were has disappeared into the shadows of doubt, fear, and self-questioning. But what if… you could reclaim your identity, rediscover your worth, and step into the most powerful, confident version of YOU?

I’m Brenda Lanigan, an author, certified transformational lifestyle coach, and creator of the What If… Mindset Philosophy—a proven approach to help you rise stronger, freer, and more in tune with who you truly are. I know this path because I’ve walked it myself.

After facing my own divorce, I lost more than a partner; I lost my sense of identity, purpose, and self-worth. Through deep reflection, spiritual healing, and practical tools for empowerment, I learned to rebuild my life—one intentional possibility at a time. That journey inspired my work: helping women just like you reclaim their power, confidence, and sense of self.